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The books

All titles are 6 × 9 inch trade paperbacks, written in British English, published independently by Julian Hollis and sold through Amazon in the UK, US, Canada and Australia. ISBNs and final page counts for the newer titles are available on request via the contact page.

• The Fearful Avoidant — The Science of Fearful Avoidant and Disorganized Attachment — Why You Crave Closeness, Push It Away, and How to Heal, Whether It's Your Pattern or Your Partner's. Attachment Series, Book One. Paperback, 445 pages. ASIN B0HDFSLJNS. Book page.
• The Dismissive Avoidant — Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style — Why Closeness Feels Like Losing Yourself, Why You Pull Away, and How to Let Someone In, Whether It's Your Pattern or Your Partner's. Attachment Series, Book Two. Paperback. ASIN B0HG393YPL. Book page.
• The Anxious Attached — Anxious Attachment Style — Why You Overthink Every Text, Fear Being Left, and Love So Hard — and How to Feel Secure, Whether It's Your Pattern or Your Partner's. Attachment Series, Book Three. Paperback. New. Book page.
• The Secure Attached — Secure Attachment Style — What Healthy Love Actually Looks Like, How Secure Connection Feels, and How to Build Secure Relationships. Attachment Series, Book Four. Paperback. ASIN B0HHXVTF45. Book page.
• Why You're Still in the Situationship — The Psychology of Undefined Relationships and the Exact Words to Get Clarity, Commit, or Walk Away. Relationship Series. Paperback. ASIN B0HBMWMMZQ. Book page.

About the author, in short

Julian Hollis is an independent writer and researcher in attachment theory, relationships and modern love. His books decode one relationship pattern at a time — fearful-avoidant, dismissive-avoidant, anxious and secure attachment, and the undefined relationship — from both sides: the person living the pattern and the partner trying to understand it. Each book combines a transparent evidence system, in which established research, converging interpretation and original frameworks are visibly separated, with practical tools: chapter Decoders, visual frameworks, assessments, decision tools and word-for-word scripts. Full biography.

The books are psychoeducational and are careful never to diagnose at a distance or to let attachment language excuse coercion, intimidation or abuse. Vignettes are clearly identified composites.